moody tema..

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2017/10/17/mummies-and-water-cremation-mortician-activist-doesnt-think-the-funeral-industry-should-decide-what-happens-to-you-after-you-die/?utm_term=.23115162a4f7

“It was always my instinct that we weren’t doing enough for our families, that we weren’t giving them enough emotional space to really grieve and have feelings,” she said. “Nothing makes me more angry when I hear about someone asking a funeral director, ‘Do you think that I could come in and fix Mom’s hair and fix Mom’s lipstick, because she liked to wear it this way,’ and they say no. It’s like their self-esteem is so wrapped up in them being the professionals.”

By contrast, many other cultures encourage intimate physical contact with the deceased, resulting in a warmer, less forbidding experience. “When you’re in Mexico the whole cemetery is just glowing as they interact with the memories of the dead,” she said.

To Doughty there’s no right or wrong way to do things, including the standard American way, but she would like people to have access to a wider range of choices — such as burying a loved one’s remains on private property, or setting them on a mountaintop for the vultures.

“These things aren’t available and you should be angry about that, because the American funeral system has a lobby,” she said. “There are regulations in place that make it incredibly hard to enter the funeral industry or have any new type of disposition become available.”

Recently, the cremation rate surpassed the burial rate in the United States for the first time. Still, embalming, which is particularly lucrative for funeral homes, is more common here than in any other country, and it is often done even when a body is going to be cremated, Doughty said. Twenty-nine states require funeral homes to be ready to embalm, meaning that even if a mortician serves only clients who don’t embalm, such as Muslims, “the state is going to say, ‘You need to go to mortician school and set up a $100,000 embalming room.’ ”

For herself, Doughty wants to be buried close to the surface of the earth, “in that really rich topsoil full of microbes and fungi. I want my body to decompose. As women we’re taught to be contained and clean and not have control over our bodies. … There’s something about the messiness of the process — the oozing and stretching out into the dirt and the earth, and that my organic matter is merging with other organic matter, that is what’s really attractive to me and really brings me comfort.”

“He [David] makes people feel safe and relaxed and then, as an artist, you can create very easily because you’re at peace. But, don’t get me wrong, he likes everything dark and moody. When we were shooting the amnesia scene – where I’m in bed and I say, ‘I don’t remember who I am’ – I remember David walking on the set, and seeing that the bed cover was white, and shouting, ‘Can we get some mood in here?’”
— Laura Harring



'Naomi Watts, David Lynch, Laura Elena Harring, Justin Theroux'
- On the set of Mulholland Drive

, but she would like people to have access to a wider range of choices — such as burying a loved one’s remains on private property, or setting them on a mountaintop for the vultures.

mada nije baš pametno navikavati zvijeri na ljudsko meso sad baš..

kic wrote:
mada nije baš pametno navikavati zvijeri na ljudsko meso sad baš..

ma dobro to je simbolicno receno
zakopat ih tu

Proces zalovanja traje 2-4 godine, a cesto je odgodjen proces.

Obično društvo očekuje da žalovanje završi za par tjedana

a može trajati godinama da..

U ovaj petak je bio sprovod mužu od prijateljice, za prošli vikend su još slavili konačno uređenje kuće, u ponedjeljak je samo pao i više ga nema.

Petak ranije im je nestao mačak, tražili ga posvuda, nisu ga našli.
Našalila se kako su ju njeni muškarci počeli napuštati, sin se zaljubio, mačak odlutao...

Nema šanse da se vrati u tu kuću ikada, ide na prodaju.

tužna priča, i ja bi se riješio tog materijalnog..

mi ovaj vikend planirali ić u Bosnu, došao u PET preksinoć stari pao i odvukli ga na hitnu, sve ti se promijeni za tren, kakvi planovi..

bed ...

kic wrote:
tužna priča, i ja bi se riješio tog materijalnog..

mi ovaj vikend planirali ić u Bosnu, došao u PET preksinoć stari pao i odvukli ga na hitnu, sve ti se promijeni za tren, kakvi planovi..

Da, reality check.
Nadam se da je sve dobro završilo na kraju.

Je li ti stari dobro, kic?

Sabina Spielrein wrote:Obično društvo 8očekuje da žalovanje završi za par tjedana

pretvaraju nas u strojeve.

ma dobar je, jebo ga did njegov..

kic wrote:
ma dobar je, jebo ga did njegov..

ok, dugorocna raca..dobro je to.

a kic znaci bosandjero :D

Sabina Spielrein wrote:U ovaj petak je bio sprovod mužu od prijateljice, za prošli vikend su još slavili konačno uređenje kuće, u ponedjeljak je samo pao i više ga nema.

Petak ranije im je nestao mačak, tražili ga posvuda, nisu ga našli.
Našalila se kako su ju njeni muškarci počeli napuštati, sin se zaljubio, mačak odlutao...

Nema šanse da se vrati u tu kuću ikada, ide na prodaju.

Koje praznovjerje.

Sabina Spielrein wrote:Obično društvo očekuje da žalovanje završi za par tjedana

Kako gdje.
Negdje te poprijeko gledaju ako žalovanje nije kako bi trebalo biti. I dovoljno dugo.